“Wait, Is This a night out together?” Podcast Episode 101: trust People Are towards You | Autostraddle
The first episode of “Wait, Is This a Date?” is formally
We make fun of! We cry! We learn about ourselves! (Okay we do not weep because we’re both environment signs with emotional walls, but we possess emotions.)
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SHOW RECORDS
+ Christina mentions that she slid into my DMs about
your
Ocean’s 11
live browse
.
+ But we knew she actually slid into my personal DMs a great deal earlier in reaction for this insta tale of my own:
+ here are a few more pleasurable screenshots from that very first convo:
+ And listed here is once I required her telephone number:
+We recorded this episode awhile ago and that I would wish to officially answer my basic FUG with fuck Jinkx, U-Haul with Symone, and ghost Carmen. (Sorry, Carmen, I like you.)
+The
music video
for Texas’ “popular” with Alan Rickman that has been formative for Christina.
+A
enjoyable sample
of Catherine Zeta Jones’ contemporary Instagram presence. Okay
discover another
.
+The quote we reference from
Detransition, Baby
:
“Jen was certainly a genuine transsexual. Amy had never ever met a trans lady in-person, and her desire for Jen bordered in unpleasant. See the lady. She appears to be a female. She sounds like a female. Over that, Amy thought, she wanted some thing from Jen. Something like sexual interest, but shaded in a different way. One thing nearer to the thrill she believed when a hollywood passed by. Of a nameless hoping in the direction of that celebrity. The conceptual beckoning that stars exhibit. The gravitational extract of these fame that tugged at Amy in order that she thought nervous as close, to be noticed, and also to end up being appreciated. To feel those star vision move without friction throughout the sleek surface of a clamoring fandom, subsequently abruptly find upon their, stop dead, and get back her look. That time of common identification, this is the best way to have the existence stamped legitimate, to transcend the anonymity of simple enthusiast, of inconsequential gawker. Jen’s had been a noncelebrity celeb that Amy could feel. A pull that maybe
only
she would feel. Amy kept looking at see in which during the store Jen had been.”
Christina:
It had been bantery and it’s really as you and I both discover banter to-be, or even the greatest thing â really, no, we simply find it to get the latest thing.
Drew:
Indeed 100%.
Christina:
I do believe we simply believe it is as the greatest thing. And I also believe because we got along so well, we naturally decrease into most banter, which for us, again, translates into hot, cool, internet dating, flirting vibes.
Theme tune performs
Drew:
Hi, I’m Drew.
Christina:
Hi, I’m Christina.
Drew:
And thank you for visiting,
Hold Off, Is This A Night Out Together?
Christina:
An Autostraddle podcast, specialized in practical question: hold off, is this big date?
Drew:
Is it?
Christina:
Well, perhaps is in reality the work to find that completely and tell the audience?
Drew:
Cool. It is early. We’re going to observe how we think at the end.
Christina:
Early days, yeah.
Drew:
Cool.
Christina:
Can we would you like to inform the people whom the audience is or can we like to just form of leave them when you look at the debateable mud?
Drew:
I can go 1st.
Christina:
Yeah. Tell me who you really are. I would like to understand.
Drew:
Yeah. I am Drew Gregory, I’m a writer and filmmaker and gay and trans, not because purchase. I authored for Autostraddle since fall of 2018. I compose a large amount about movies and television, as well as plenty about matchmaking, especially online dating as a trans woman in lesbian area. And in addition a lot of motion pictures we compose go for about trans lesbians, therefore a genuine through line there. Oh, and if it wasn’t clear, I like online dating. And most that, I love making reference to internet dating.
Christina:
It really is certainly my favorite aspects of you, just how much you only need to want to day and explore it and do all of the. The thing I’m likely to phone nonsense, simply normally.
Drew:
Sure.
Christina:
I’m Christina Tucker. I’m in addition an author at Autostraddle. I am here since 2019. I am a podcaster and author, We have showed up on different podcasts. We co-host a podcast called
Unfriendly Ebony Hotties
about intersection of competition and higher ed and pop society. I am type of merely online, like a loud net queer is how I would typically describe my self. We, unlike Drew, hate matchmaking and therefore all of our podcast was given birth to, I would state. Do you state Drew?
Drew:
Yeah. In my opinion that has been a fairly regular thing throughout all of our friendship is really among the best topics and another of the least favored subjects. I believe there is a large number of means we are quite similar, but that is the way we are extremely maybe not similar. We in addition, we are able to provide this framework but, we did not truly know one another prior to the pandemic. You were hired at Autostraddle fall of 2019, as you mentioned, and I also understood of you due to this. But such as the first few days associated with the pandemic, for some reason we started speaking from inside the DMs. I really don’t recall which people slid into whoever DMs. Do you realy recall?
Christina:
I would like to say, I slid into your DMs because you happened to be doing that dining table browse of
Ocean’s 11.
And that I had been like, “Is
Ocean’s 11
the greatest flick ever made? Discuss.” And we were both love, “Yeah, it is.” And then type from that point we actually went.
Drew:
Yeah. After which we simply were messaging a whole lot. Immediately after which somehow, really, at some point i obtained your own phone number, and rapidly into having your phone number we started delivering voice memos in the place of sms.
Drew, in sound memo:
Thus I’m merely going to tell you the thoughts that i’ve, and then you can go from that point and respond to me personally, maybe not react to myself, whatever. This is exactly myself becoming direct and obvious.
Drew:
And therefore was actually sort of the friendship the season was us only for amounts of time, like all time, delivering a long time voice memos back-and-forth, which we’d usually joke ended up being like a podcast. And then sometime earlier in 2010 I became very stoned and delivered you a voice memo that was like, “what if we really had a podcast?” And subsequent morning, unlike, i believe, various other time I sent you a top vocals memo, you were like, “which is actually recommended.”
Christina:
Yeah. Quite often, because Drew and I go on other coasts, I go to fall asleep and that I wake-up to like one or two voice memos from Drew, often high, sometimes not. And in most cases we pay attention to all of them when I’m appearing out of a slumber. And that I say, “which is my pal received. She actually is having an experience that i did not encounter because I’m over right here asleep.” And then I type only progress using my time, react as I feel just like it, if it’s needed. Sometimes they’re merely, “this is certainly anything I happened to be contemplating.” But this package, we said, “No, that that pal of mine is actually onto anything. She is had gotten an actual concept occurring therefore need doing this.” Now right here we have been. I am truly excited though. I do believe it will likely be fantastic. I think we’re truly enjoyable. I do believe we’re enjoyable to talk to. And I believe you speaking about internet dating will probably be at least very interesting for individuals to hear.
Drew:
I’d say so. You will find a small amount of an ego on myself. I am a Leo soaring and a Capricorn sunshine, very. But i actually do frequently think like, you’ll deliver me a voice memo referring ton’t also about myself, it’s not about my personal pride. It’s about merely considering you’re great. And being love, “Oh my God, this is fantastic. And that I want others had been reading this extremely funny thing Christina ended up being stating.” And then you-all can!
Christina:
Really, I’m in addition a Leo rising. To make sure that works completely really. We all know one another perfectly, you, beautiful audience, have no idea us. Therefore we’re going to carry out slightly icebreaker so you can get to learn united states, familiarize yourself with our very own feeling, become familiar with, i assume everything we’re into online dating sensible, to help you listen to this podcast and be aware about all of our taste. Is that proper?
Drew:
That seems really precise. I prefer the idea that a game of, “screw, U-Haul, Ghost” will be that showing in regards to our listeners. Nevertheless know what? I think it is going to. I believe whom you should screw and U-Haul and ghost with are very informing. I think.
Christina:
Yeah, I think very as well.
Drew:
I possibly could start.
Christina:
I do believe you’re going to start.
Drew:
Okay.
Christina:
Yeah. You’re in fact browsing start since you fell somewhat hint last week if you ask me that you are currently cackling with delight whenever happened to be getting these collectively. Therefore I want to see what you’ve accomplished, ma’am.
Drew:
I simply had been like, impress, I really understand Christina so well. Oh, one other thing individuals should know about is we’ve never came across.
Christina:
Oh, right.!
Drew:
Physically.
Christina:
Yeah, no, we go on face-to-face coasts and I also don’t know knowing, but we’ve been residing on a damn, Paul Blart shopping center policeman, therefore we cannot, there isn’t fulfilled.
Drew:
Yet, I’m sure you so well. Therefore, the first the one that i wish to start with is similar to genuine standard. Like I’m considering years very long, Christina’s really love whenever we came across and Christina’s love today. So that your three choices are Allison Janney.
Allison Janney:
Who is my personal small guy. You my little man? That’s my sixth husband immediately. The very best of all of them.
Drew:
Michelle Gomez.
Michelle Gomez:
I Am Missy. Welcome to paradise.
Drew:
And Jennifer Aniston.
Jennifer Aniston:
Hello Brad. You probably know how lovely? I usually believed you were.
Christina:
This can be difficult. In fact, it isn’t that difficult. I will need certainly to ghost Jen. I like Jen. I believe her work is amazing. We have been both soles so there’s little that could happen here. And that I genuinely believe that’s great. I do believe that is breathtaking, but that’s just not will be what’s going to occur. Demonstrably, bang, it will have to be Michelle Gomez. She actually is a little Scottish lunatic. Her birth information is walnuts. Countless Scorpio inside, a lot of Sag. That will be a fun time. Daily, I’m a tourist. That isn’t likely to work-out for people. So we’re going to have one merely fun night, perhaps a weekend, who is going to say, I don’t know just what parameters of the fuck tend to be. Nonetheless it’ll end up being fun immediately after which she’ll set off and carry out whatever she really does. And infant Alice and I are going to merely completely U-Haul, merely U-Haul away. We’re going to have a very good time. I know which our beginning charts are pretty suitable and I believe that’s nice. And So I felt that would definitely end up being hard and it was really quite easy and maybeâ¦
Drew:
Great. I enjoy that. The fact you could potentially present specific evidence about they, i believe is truly stunning, and I also’m truly happy for your needs and Alison, that it’s from inside the stars.
Christina:
Many thanks. Cheers a whole lot. Available, i desired hitting three items that I know you love. Thus 1st we’re doing a drag battle release.
Drew:
Great.
Christina:
We’re performing Symone.
Symone:
Don’t allow the smooth-face trick you baby.
Christina:
We’re saying Jinkx.
Jinkx:
I will be Seattle’s leading Jewish narcoleptic drag king.
Christina:
So we’re claiming, Carmen Carrera.
Carmen:
Raja’s obtaining naked. I am like, this is certainly going to be hot because Carmen is nudity so weare going to put straight down immediately.
Drew:
Ooh. Okay. See, i am very bad at hypothetical video games because i believe through all of them all day. Do not have hrs, so I’m planning just be sure to do this effectively. I think i need to ghost Carmen.
Christina:
In my opinion you are doing too. Which was my personal thought. Butâ
Drew:
I hate to accomplish this.
Christina:
You dislike to see it.
Drew:
I’m actually split between, I’m not sure. Okay, therefore I do know for sure that Symone’s also a Capricorn, Jinkx is a Virgo. I really never outdated another Capricorn or a Virgo. I believe, okay. It really is just as if the stakes tend to be up to I’m in fact likely to U-Haul with this person.
Christina:
No. It really is like, you are going to walk out of your own apartment to check out these folks about street getting like, “Well, we heard everything you selected.” I’m sure that is what’s taking place in your thoughts today.
Drew:
I think that i will bang Symone and U-Haul with Jinkx. And my personal thinking behind this is certainly that I think that predicated on in which they can be at inside their life, I think Symone is actually, based on this current period of pull competition, is still functioning through several things and maybe actually prepared regarding amount of a commitment, which will be very mean for my situation to say, but I feel like Jinkx is, i believe just got involved. Thus within my view, if she is prepared to get interested, very.
Christina:
I adore you are taking this real world electricity involved with it as though myself publicly contacting Jennifer Anderson a base is much like, technology reality.
Drew:
You might also flip that though and declare that I should U-Haul with Symone. I truly don’t determine if Symone’s solitary, but Jinkx isn’t readily available for a committed relationship. Anyways, these are generally my personal feelings. Should we move forward?
Christina:
Yeah. This is certainly a truly good thing your audience knowing. This is actually the degree that Drewwill simply take every thing we discuss. Therefore just get yourself prepared regarding. She is ready. I’m ready. Here we go.
Drew:
Okay. Thus subsequent i desired to complete a male version because something which is actually fun usually I’m sure that despite you distinguishing as a lesbian, there is a certain kind of man you are drawn to.
Christina:
Yeah, it really is terrible.
Drew:
And so the three choices are, Roy on
Ted Lasso
as played by Brett Goldstein.
Roy:
Jesus, Mary, and fuck face Joseph, vision regarding guy you are marking, think about it!
Drew:
Corey Ellison on
The Morning Program
as starred by Billy Crudup.
Corey:
If he desires fire me, he will fucking shoot me personally. I do not need this task. The actual only real explanation i am carrying it out is basically because its fun. I am extremely, great at it. And it’s really much easier to get set when you’re employed.
Drew:
And Alan Rickman inside the Colorado songs video, “needed,” that is a really specific thing i understand about Christina, that she enjoys that songs video and really loves Alan Rickman inside it.
Christina:
We am⦠actually, this is so that much harder than the basic one. I am needs to feel just like i need to perform a rather Drew-level, in-depth, deep dive. I eventually got to reorganize my self. Okay. Okay. So the thing is, Alan Rickman is actually lifeless, so I perform feel just like i need to ghost on him, unfortuitously, because he ghosted on myself initially â approximately that songs video was formative for my sex, we are going to feature a link within our tv show notes compared to that songs video clip, it is seriously crucial, everybody watch it. There’s an instant at a gas place, anyhow. He’s a ghost. Therefore I will therefore ghost him. Now, Roy and Corey, this will be difficult. Corey doesn’t have some intimate electricity in my opinion as played by Billy on
The Day Show.
He is simply kind of like a chaos demon, that is certainly fun, but I don’t know, gender sensible, if something’s happening there for him. It doesn’t actually appear to be something that’s on his radar actually ever. Therefore I might be lured to marry Corey and get per night of love with Roy Kent, immediately after which move on. Leave him to Keeley while he is deserving of, and move on with Cory where he is running a network of some sort. Yeah. I do believe that is the answer. In my opinion its ghost Alan Rickman, just who, are obvious, ghosted myself very first. Fuck Corey Ellison. Nope. Hold off, was actually that a Freudian slip? Hard to express. No, it wasn’t. I just forgot. Fuck Roy Kent. Marry Cory Ellison. Wow. I’m perspiring. That was difficult. Which was very difficult. Alright. For you, needless to say, I got to accomplish an actor’s version considering who you really are as people. Therefore we’ve got Lola Rodriguez.
Lola Rodriguez:
[Speaking in Spanish]
Christina:
Indya Moore.
Indya Moore:
It’s a lot more challenging to exist as opposed simply to walk in this outfit.
Christina:
And Jamie Clayton.
Jamie Clayton:
Oh, come on. Girls must love that wall surface that you’ve constructed. But really, I’m stoked that you’re right here. If only the entire bar had been full of women like you.
Drew:
Wow. Okay.
Christina:
As it works out, i am aware you also, friend.
Drew:
I really love the commitment to trans stars, also.
Christina:
Yeah, dog. Once again, we state i am aware you.
Drew:
Okay. It is very amusing when it is queer actors, trans actors, in which i am love, “i will fulfill you at a party at some point and I’m gonna be sorry for whatever I state in regards to you on the net.” I am about to ghost Jamie because she actually is right.
Christina:
Reasonable adequate.
Drew:
So when very much like Everyone loves⦠I really don’t be seduced by cis directly ladies, but I do fall for trans straight women. And that I believe that is my personal correct as a gay trans lady.
Christina:
Yeah. It’s.
Drew:
But I’m however browsing ghost Jamie because In my opinion it’s simply more healthy for me to not you will need to do that. In my opinion i will bang Lola Rodriguez because Really don’t in fact know if⦠I am not sure how much English she speaks and I try not to speak Spanish. So I genuinely believe that⦠What i’m saying is, if we U-Hauled, i do believe we’d find out and therefore could possibly be really great.
Christina:
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